I’m not able to change your life, but you certainly are.
And I have found that it’s ideas that literally change everything in our life.
In life, you should only ever be doing one of two things…
Figuring out what you’re most passionate about to find your dream in life.
Realizing those passions and realizing those dreams.
And the first one is much harder than the second one if you know what you want to do.
If you figure it out, you can commit your entire life to do it, and you’ll either get really close or you’ll die trying.
So this is what I would challenge you…
Look inside of yourself see what you really want.
Where do your passions lie?
I want to tell this young man, or woman. That the only way you’re ever going to get to the other side of this journey is you have got to suffer, to grow and to grow, you must suffer.
You can become the kind of person that is so in tune with the values that you have and what you actually want that when feelings rise up. You can choose to act.
However you want.
Even if you’re tired, you still go to the gym, even if you’re annoyed, with your spouse, you can still speak in a manner that’s loving.
Even you don’t feel like doing that hard work. You can still push yourself to do it.
Your feelings are a choice and your behavior and your thoughts are always a choice.
Several people live to be a hundred years old.
They have great lives they have great kids. The kids go to college and all sort stuff. But somewhere in their life, there was a point where they had a decision to make.
They can go left or right on this path.
Left was the easy route, right was a hard route.
Allowed to take the easy route and they had a good life that way.
But the better life is going to the right side. And you may have twenty years of pain and suffering get past it, so a lot of us never to start our journey.
Many people are suffering from battle fatigue.
They’ve been standing a long time trying to break the addiction.
Trying for the promotion, praying for that family member, but has it happened yet.
They never dreamed.
They’d still be single.
Still be dealing with the illness.
Still be trying to get the loan.
Now they’re tired.
Let me encourage you, your time is coming. Your due season is on the way.
Don’t let time talk you out of it.
Don’t let discouragement cause you to give up.
Don’t let negative thoughts convince you to settle where you are.
You were born to succeed, to win, to conquer all difficulties and to live to your full potential.
What is only thing that stands between you and everything you’ve ever wanted to do?
You have to trust your own voice. Your own ideas, your honesty, your vulnerability and through this myth find your way.
You do not have to be fearless.
Just don’t let fear stop you.
Live like this as best you can and I guarantee. You will look back on a life well-lived.
You are capable of greatness in your profession and more importantly and your quality of self.
Stay young at heart.
Take those risks.
You are going to change the world around you in big ways and small.
If we want to go somewhere, you got to do it. One of the great secrets in life to become successful. With into the business, whether it’s working with someone or for someone or your personal life is ‘be prepared in life for a lot of rejection’.
Because if we’re prepared for all the rejection that comes, we don’t get turned off or disappointed, like I’m not gonna do this anymore.
Like this, we’re more willing to take risks. We’re more willing to experiment which requires failure.
We’re more willing to explore and go somewhere with that no one has ever gone before with the confidence.
You need to start making the choice…
Make the decision that life is too short to suffer.
So how many of you are waiting to be picked by someone?
Are you making the most of your life?
…all you need to know to change anything is
A. You’re never going to feel like it.
You’re never going to feel ready. You’re never going to feel ready to have that hard conversation. You’re never going to feel like getting out of bed. You’re never going to feel like it’s a good idea to apply for that promotion. We’re designed to stay comfortable and safe. So you know that you’re A. never going to feel like it and
B. There is no one coming.
It’s up to you. You’re not a kid anymore. I have some bad habits. All my habits are not great, so if you’ve got some bad habits don’t feel bad, so does your next-door neighbor.
So does your mentor, your coach, so does your mother and father if they’re alive.
So does everyone and the trick of life is to replace a bad habit with a good habit.
Make up your mind.
You’re going to do it every day every day every day. Until you don’t have to think on it. And then go automatically do it.
I guarantee you this idea will change your life.
Think about it all day. Because that is definitely an idea that will give you results that will stick.
No matter who you are, no matter where you are in life. If you’re not excited about waking up in the morning, or if you’re sitting around bored out of your mind.
If you’ve got time to do everything, anybody askx you to do. You probably got the lid on.
If when you tell your dreams to all your friends. It makes sense to them. You got your lid on!
Your dreams should be should not make sense to everybody.
You got to say something that make people go. ‘How you going to do that?’
That’s when you got to leave it off, and if I were you, I’d do that. I take the lid off.
It’s not always going to be easy, there are going to be challenges. There are still going to be curve balls.
I have to continue to get outside myself because when you’re uncomfortable, that’s the only way you’re going to grow. Right?
So the only way to become successful is going towards the truth as painful as brutal as it is.
It is changing me. I am in the process of being who I want to be.
To do this you have to face your fears to become the person you want to be.
You run from your fears. You’re not living you’re alive, but you’re not beginning.
When the days are running you, you always be the servant, never the master.
We all fall down in life.
The question is who gets back up?
Again, it’s not the potential of the individuals its not the genetics, it’s the perseverance – the Never-Say-Die.
If you constantly keep throwing shit against the wall, eventually something will stick
Never give in what you want.
Only you can make it happen.